Hey readers! I cant think of too much to talk about tonight, so I'm just going to answer todays...
FEATURED QUESTION!
Okay, yes I realize that it's not as exciting as the big font makes it out to be. But here goes:
What is the best way to resolve long-term conflict?
Hm, this one's kind of tough. I would say first off, you need to learn the other side of the story; wouldn't you agree? I mean, how can you resolve conflict if you dont know what the other person was thinking? We all think differently here people! Okay, but really I think the real issue for most people is that they are too stubborn to admit that they might be/are wrong. I know many, many, MANY hard-headed people that refuse to ever admit that they are wrong or have made a mistake, thus causing conflict with their friends (ahem, I might just be one of those stubborn people. But also, we (as people) need to learn to forgive but not forget. If you forgive, but then forget what good does it do because it's most likely just going to happen to you again!
Also, I think we all need to get over ourselves. We all blow our problems SO out of preportion! She stole your boyfriend? So what? I guess he wasn't a very good boyfriend if he's able to just leave you like that! GET OVER IT. Don't hold grudges; I think grudges are one the the main sources of regret for most individuals.
I mean yes, some things are unforgiveable, and if that's the case, I'm terribly sorry because I know that feeling and it's one of the worst in the world. Don't worry, it will pass and you will forget about them. Don't hold onto what you no longer have. If you lost the trust in the person, DONT give them a second chance, just move on.
Okay, well there's my rant for today! Come again tomorrow for another PinkHink. (I promise I wont do the featured question unless it's really good!)
Over and Out!
--Meagan--
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